And so, this is another quite long post.

 Though out my years being as a friend for a friend, at times, when they break up.. they'll tell me. Yeah, tell me one thing. How to be a friend in need to be a friend indeed?

 I've had quite a few friends come to me and talked about their break ups. I have no idea how to make them feel better, to be honest. I can't tell them not to be sad ( if they got dump ). I can't tell them to move on ( because at this time, of course they are not moving on YET ). I can't practically say anything but to just listen. I mean.. what am I to say? Telling them that the other person is a jerk.bitch.bastard that doesn't know how to appreciate you? Or say, there are plenty of fishes in the sea? Or even, telling them being single rocks? 

Isn't that a little too cliche already? Do I have to say it again and again but to different people who complained to me? I have no clue how to make them feel better. I have not been heartbroken before ( I don't think the infatuation part donkey years back was categorised under heartbroken..), so I can't actually tell what a heartbroken person wants from a friend. But what I do know is that, words are only words. Maybe they will feel better after spilling their sadness out, or may be they will feel appreciative that you're there to listen to them.. but after awhile, I can guarantee you, they'll be sad again. No point telling them whatever I've said just now. Only works for a few minutes. And then the whole crying cycle begins again. Then you felt as a friend you're a total fiasco. Not being able to make your friend happy. 

Blah. That's how I felt. I've been hearing all the break up stories until I have no more nice things to say to them to make them feel better. AT times, I just say 'just be sad, normal. I know you'll be sad, I can't tell you to be happy. I can't tell you to move on either, because right now you won't . But I'm all ears for you if you need me. And blah.' That's what I said to them. I don't know whether if offended them or not but I have no more words- I'm lost of words. 

Oh well, in a way I'm glad they shared it with me and this proves they knew I'm listening to them. But in a way, I'm un-glad, because I have got nothing nice to say to make them feel better. Mehs. 

 Okay anyways, was inspired by a friend who just recently broke up with her other half. So pardon my ramblings.

 Next, a funny story.

 Ok. This friend of mine, a guy.. let's call him G. He, previously asked me how to woo a girl that he likes. And ok, I told him my tips. And now, the girl seems to like him back. And I'm like, wow okay, I am a good coach. She asked him to go to her house and sleep. And intro him to her parents. And there I was, all the while thinking that this indicates a total SCORE for a guy. BUT NO, NOT FOR HIM. WTF. He complained to me that he is SCARED, scared that something would happen. Well, frankly speaking- it's sex I suppose. Just that we censored ourselves by saying something.. would happen. Okay, I don't know guys already. I gave up. Suddenly he told me he only like her as a friend. He scared something would happen. OI.. isn't all guys want that thing to happen?? Why is he so weird one?!!? SCORED but in the end scared?? HUH?!!?! r u serious?! Gosh, from that moment onwards.. I told myself.. guys are complicated too.

Moving on...

 I have no idea why SOOO many people commented on my short hair. Guys especially. Hey, aren't guys like girls with long hair?! WHATS WRONG WITH GUYS NOW AH?! Short hair ain't as good as long hair in terms of being sexy. Well. of course there would be an exception : when the girl is already having sexy look then all styles jadi la. But ME?? Hello. My face is quite fugly. With short hair, even more fugly. But, the short hair that the Tyko cut for me always get a BIG HUUHAAA.. 20 likes from a side view of my hair. Never ending ppl telling me that my hair yau yeng. Even a specialist in my previous ward commented. WTH. Saying it looks like korean style, unique n nice. OK. Nurses telling other nurses that my hair is nice. WTH x 2. Hey, it's just a normal short hairstyle la. What's that hype about ar?? Once again, I just don't get what guys are thinking. Why do they like my short hair style. GOSH. 

 Lastly...

 I don't like guys who is flirty and tells me that I'm cute at the first time meeting me. One of my sisters friend did that. He's the type who change girls like changing clothes. Easily like a person. And so happened that I got to meet my sister and he wants to tag along. So like duh, he met me. And bla la, saying that I am very cute (attitude wise), saying my make up suits me well, saying that my skirt looks awesome.. tot that I just came back from meeting clients or something.. zZzZzz.. YADA YADA. Ok first thing, I don't like guys who says all the good things so fast. So superficial. I won't be flattered, instead I'm more prone to be offended. My sis says the way he looked at me like, he was mesmerised. GOSh. Hey you, just because you're sweet talker, just because you're a doctor.. I won't fall for these type of guys la. Haiyoh. OK thank goodness I'm my sis, sister. She told me if I was not her sister he would have gone for me. YOHH... shooo. 

 Then, here comes the specialist. Tackled my friend before I came to his ward. When I'm there, he tried to so-called-tackle-but-in-a-very-minor-way. Saying that my hair nice, saying out loud that he doesn't have gf twice, hit me with his pen when I was following up my patient.. telling me to follow ward round with him.. and asking me what nice movies to watch. Haih, sorry ar, once again, though you're a specialist but I'm not interested laa.. why am I attracting those type of guys these days?? 

 Thankfully for this both cases, I did not give him my contact no. I avoid as much as possible. Phew. So long my friends. Sayonara and hope you'll have a girl who could appreciate your sweet talking.